How to select an object, the selector tool and the bounding box.
Holding down the Alt key while clicking will cycle through each object under the mouse cursor position. If the cycling doesn't work, your window manager may be stealing the Alt key
Set the mouse pointer above items that are stacked on top of each other and use Alt+mouse wheel scroll to cycle through all of them and Shift+Alt+mouse wheel scroll to add it to the existing selection
In a group, Ctrl+click that object
Rubberband: Within the Selector tool, the mouse creates a rubberband when dragging :
Use Alt+mouse wheel scroll to cycle through all items that are stacked on top of each other at the location of the mouse pointer and Shift+Alt+mouse wheel scroll to add to the existing selection an object that may be in another z-order
Shift+Ctrl+click several objects (inside or outside any groups) for multiple selection regardless of grouping.
Edit > … or Control Bar
Selection set (Object > Selection Set), create one and use the + to add an obejct to the set
When an object is selected, a selection cue appears around it. It's the bounding box (by default, a dashed rectangular frame). You can transform the object with its handles